BBW moving to Richmond - w4m
I'm a 36 yr old BBW moving to Richmond, Indiana in the next 3 weeks and while I'm not seeking anything long term, I'm not opposed to it either. I'm fresh out of a relationship and not in a rush to commit, but do seek an emotional connection beyond just the physical. I realize men really are penile thinkers, and women really are emotional thinkers, but there has to be compromise from both sides. Raging hormones are wonderful- I LIKE aggressive sex , but I want the romance too- the flowers, terms of endearment, the sense of warmth and protectiveness. Let's just call it the "Fuck me then hold me" plan.
I consider myself to be intelligent, average in appearance, financially independent but emotionally dependent in the sense that I crave having someone to spend time with in and out of bed. I think we all want to be respected for our accomplishments, our minds, our hearts, and wanted to be lusted after for purely sexual reasons.
I tend to like the alpha-male types- and race is not an issue. I have never slept with a black man but it is a fantasy so if you're black, it's a plus, however, if you're not- it's certainly not a negative. I like men that are tough outwardly but have that secret little place inside that needs me as emotionally as I do them.
I like curling up to watch a movie at home with take out and wine, and seeing just how long we can pay attention to the movie and keep our hands to ourselves. I like all kinds of music, and love to dance. I'm not very socially active as my career takes precedence, but love plays, musicals, comedy clubs, and most other performing arts venues. I would say I'm average on the outside, but classy on the inside. I don't mind if you're a rocket scientist, or a construction worker as long as we can find some common ground for discussion and activity. I'm not obese but I am overweight and let's be honest- I haven't had plastic surgery so I am definitely not as "perky" as I use to be. If you're looking for a super model, I am not the one for you.
I would prefer to communicate initially through email and gradually move to phone and then meet in person when I move. Interested? Drop me a few lines with more than "Got a pic?"
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