Help me find my inner submissive? - w4m
So I've recently decided that I want to explore a part of myself that I have known about for a long time, but have never really had the opportunity to act on. My hope is that I can find the right person to help in that endeavor. I want to submit to a dominant man.
There is a strong part of me that needs to feel that loss of control, to feel my will given over, but to have that complete trust in another person...to know that I'm ultimately safe. To be guided, directed, ordered, to be punished, to be totally and completely cared for when it's all over. I just want to feel that strong bond with another person that this type of lifestyle can create, one I just don't think is possible in a vanilla relationship.
I want the dominant aspect to be a mostly sexual thing. I'm not sure that I'd ever be interested in living it 24/7, but if it sometimes extended into everyday life, I might enjoy that too. What I'm looking for is something that can start out semi-casual, but possibly grow into more if the right feelings are there. Ideally, the right man would be smart and articulate, attractive, single and not living the poly lifestyle, someone very close in age to me, someone that is always in control of himself, someone that knows how to put others at ease, and someone that is very familiar with how this kind of dynamic works and the kind of connection that can result from it.