I've always been a very giving lover. I like to please. I like to explore a man's body and find all of his sensitive spots. I love to give blow jobs and have been told I'm very good at. I have a tendency to put my partner's needs first. To kiss them and their body and get them so worked up that all they can think about is getting inside of me. I enjoy doing this. I've had many good lovers in my lifetime, but I can't say that I've ever had somebody return that favor. The men I've been with have been willing to please me and do whatever I ask. But I'm never going to ask for much. What I need is a dominate man, not a man who wants to slap and degrade me, but a man who's willing to tell me no. A man that will pull my hand away when I reach for his cock and tell me he's not done pleasing me yet. A man who wants to take the time to explore my body and find my sensitive spots. Who'll do it without me having to ask him and tell him what I want, but who'll try things and pay attention to my reactions and listen to my body telling him what I need. A man who will tease the hell out of my tits, alternating between groping them fully and lightly touching them, waiting until I'm completely frustrated, even mad before touching my sensitive nipples.I've always thought that the way to get what I want is to treat someone how I'd like to be treated. This hasn't worked for me so far. Unfortunately in reality, the squeaky wheel gets the grease. So here I am, posting an ad, asking for what I want. If you think you're the one to give it to me, send me a message. Tell me what kind of things you'd do to me. Please don't send me a picture of your cock, I know what they look like. I don't expect you to be well hung or insanely good looking with rippled abs, but it here has to be some attraction there. That being said, I'm much more attracted to what's inside someone's head than what they look like and intelligence and humor is a big plus. I've been told I'm very attractive even though I could stand to lose a few pounds.I'm looking forward to reading some responses. If I like what you have to say, I'll respond. If I feel like there is a connection then we can arrange to meet for a drink. Maybe in a bar at a hotel. And if there is attraction in person, I may just let you lead me upstairs.Discretion is a must.Dark and early this morning I walked by a car and saw a couple sitting in it kissing. I didn't stare or anything and just kept walking but this strange feeling of jealousy came over me and I really wanted what they had, that is of course unless they were having a one night stand or something. So, since I am right in the middle of doing something but would still like to start looking for a relationship I have posted this ad. If your looking for what I am then email me!